Wednesday, August 8, 2012

You have to love yourself before you love anyone else.


-fuckin' love this song!-

“At fifteen, beauty and talent do not exist; there can only be promise of the coming woman”. - Honore de Balzac
“The world's biggest power is the youth and beauty of a woman”. - Chanakya
“Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical”. - Sophia Loren
“The best part of beauty is that which no picture can express.” - Francis Bacon
“Wisdom is the abstract of the past, but beauty is the promise of the future.”   - Oliver Wendell Holmes
“A lot of us grow up and we grow out of the literal interpretation that we get when we're children, but we bear the scars all our life. Whether they're scars of beauty or scars of ugliness, it's pretty much in the eye of the beholder”.  – Stephen King
“The human soul needs actual beauty more than bread.”  – David Herbert Lawrence
“Beauty is merciless. You do not look at it, it looks at you and does not forgive.”  – Nikos Kazantzakis
The ideal beauty is a fugitive which is never found.  – Joan Rivers

“You teenagers from today are so strange”, my mom told me, “you can never know what’s going on in their minds, and we parents think the worst could happen.” That’s right, we have tangled minds, we know too much for our age, grow up in a fucked up generation that will never give us time to breathe in and out. She continued “For just one little shit, you all make a life & death situation, when you can solve it very simple. And how most of you end up? Killing themselves, when they had all life in front of their eyes. The worst thing for a parent is to take it’s child to the ground… and know that they will never see them again.  “ She looked at me like she wanted to get into my mind, and see what’s there, “I don’t  know what’s going in your little head, but I’m hoping you’re not going to end up like those fucked up kids. Why can’t you just understand once and for all that you’re BEAUTIFUL and SMART and I LOVE YOU?” Another wave of tears came into my eyes, and all my attempts of stopping them was for nothing good. “Say for 10 times ‘I’m beautiful and smart’, right now. Come on!”. I said it without thinking twice. “Good. Next time say it with more persuasion.” She gived me the goodnight-kiss on my check, and then turn off the light and let me alone to fall asleep in the incredible dark around me.

“Voi adoleşcenţii din zilele de azi sunteţi aşa de ciudaţi”, mi-a spus mama, „Niciodată nu ştii ce se întâmplă în mintea lor, iar noi părinţii ne gândim la ce se poate mai rău”. Aşa este, avem minţi încâlcite, ştim prea multe pentru vârstele noastre, am crescut intr-o generaţie de tot rahatu care nu ne va lăsa nici măcar un moment de respiro.  Ea a continuat, „Pentru fiecare rahat, voi faceţi o situaţie de viaţă şi moarte, care de fapt se poate rezolva foarte uşor. Şi cum mulţi dintre voi ajungeţ? Să vă omorâţi, când aveţi toată viaţa înaintea ochilor voştrii. Cel mai rău lucru care i se poate întâmpla unui părinte este să îşi conducă copilul spre groapă... şi să ştie că nu va mai apuca să îl vadă vreodată.” S-a uitat la mine de parcă ar fi vrut să intre în capul meu şi să vadă ce este acolo. „ Nu ştiu ce se petrece în capul tau mic în acest moment, dar sper că nu vei ajunge ca aceşti copii. De ce nu poţi să înţelegi odată şi pentru totdeauna că eşti FRUMOASĂ şi DEŞTEAPTĂ şi TE IUBESC?" Un alt val de lacrimi au ajuns în ochii mei, iar toate încercările mele de a le ţine acolo nu au ajutat deloc. "Spune de 10 ori, 'Sunt frumoasă şi deşteaptă', chiar acuma. Haide!" Am spus de 10 ori fără să mă gândesc de două ori. "Bun. Data viitoare spune-o cu mai multă convingere." MI-a dat pe obraz pupicul de noapte buna, apoi a stins lumina şi m-a lăsat singură să adorm în incredibilul întuneric din jurul meu.


15 comments:

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